4 Ways to Boost Your Self-Confidence

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The more confident you are, the easier it is to get through life. When you have high self-esteem you are far more likely to pursue your goals and dreams than you would be if you did not feel happy with who and what you are.

By boosting your self-confidence, then, you can make pretty much every area of your life, from work to dating, better, more fulfilling, and ultimately happier. But, how exactly do you boost your self-confidence? Here are a few ideas:  

1. Write down your positive qualities

We all have positive qualities, but if your self-esteem is low, it might not feel like that. Sit down with your journal and spend as long as you need to jotting down your positive qualities. Are you a hard worker? A good friend? A committed volunteer? Pretty soon your pen will be flowing and you will come to see that, actually, as a person, you’re not bad at all.

2. Improve your appearance

Many people feel better about themselves when they look good. If you are one of them, doing what you can to improve your appearance, whether it’s getting a new wardrobe tailored to fit you like a glove or booking teeth whitening sessions with your dentist, once it’s done, you will look great, and looking great will help to boost your confidence, even if it’s only just a little.

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3. Be kind to yourself

You’re probably kind to everyone you meet from friends and family members to co-workers and the people you meet in line at the store, but are you kind to yourself? If you are the kind of person who never has a good word to say about yourself, it will obviously knock your self-esteem. 

If you want to be confident, you need to start being kind to yourself, so every time you think a bad thought, whether it’s I’m too fat or I’m useless at work, think about what a good friend would say and tell yourself that. This will require your brain to think more positively about yourself and you will see a vast improvement in your self-confidence if you keep it up.

4. Set yourself a challenge

If you have no self-confidence, you will probably hate the idea of setting yourself a challenge because you will probably feel worthless and ineffective. However, doing so is a really good way to turn things around.

If you set a challenge that is not too easy, but also not impossible to achieve, and you work on meeting your goals, you will have lots of little successes along the way that show you that you are useful and you can do things if you put your mind to it. This will build up your confidence better than almost anything else, and when you achieve that ultimate goal... well you’ll be absolutely beaming with confidence, that’s for sure!

You deserve to be confident, and high self-esteem can really open doors for you, so do whatever you can to feel better about yourself today!

How To Journal For Mental Wellness

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A journal can be whatever you want it to be. For some people, it’s a record of each day. For others, it’s a creative outlet. For others, it’s a way to manage their mental wellness. Journaling for mental wellness has gained a lot of focus over recent years (especially since the pandemic). If you’re thinking of trying it, here are three points to consider.

Journal on paper

You can journal electronically if you really want to. It is, however, a good idea at least to try paper journaling. Many people find it a very different experience from journaling electronically and a better one for mental wellness.  

Apart from anything else, journaling on paper, by definition, takes you away from screens. It can also help to force you to slow down. Even if you’re a slow typist, using a keyboard is still often much quicker than writing. That’s fine if you just need to get a job done but sometimes there’s a case for going slowly and mindfully.

Journaling on paper also provides a high degree of privacy and security compared to journaling electronically. You don’t have to deal with tech fails or cybersecurity issues. There’s also less danger of you accidentally publishing something you meant to keep private.

Balance structure with freedom

Even though the names are similar, bullet journaling and regular journaling are different. You can, however, draw inspiration from bullet journaling. In particular, you could look at its balance of structure and flexibility as a guide for your journaling. For example, you might want to include prompts and trackers alongside blank space for you to use as you wish.

You can also keep a “temporary” journal as well as a proper one. Your temporary journal can essentially be your “catch-all” for whatever thoughts you want to record. This can literally mean anything from basic to-dos to your thoughts on the Yelp extortion issue. You would then distill these down into your proper journal.

This approach is particularly useful when you’re still figuring out what you want from your journal. Even once you do have an established journaling process, it can still be handy to have an “overflow” notebook.

Push your creative boundaries

As previously mentioned, your journal can and should be whatever you want it to be. If, however, you’re journaling for mental wellness, then you may find it very helpful to push your creative boundaries. At the very least, it’s worth trying and seeing how you feel about it.

Pushing your creative boundaries will mean different things to different people. Basically, it will depend on where your starting point is. If you’ve never considered yourself to be creative then you might want to start with the likes of stickers and stamps and doodles. If you are more artistic, then use your journal to try out new techniques.

Regardless of your previous artistic experience (if any), you might want to try exploring neurographics. This is a technique for drawing out your inner feelings and expressing them on paper where you can address them. Many people find it very soothing and relaxing.

What Are The Best Ways To Practise Self-Care?

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What Are The Best Ways To Practise Self-Care? 

Self-care offers many benefits, making it important to prioritize. Indeed, it helps to improve your physical health while reducing stress and the risks of developing anxiety and depression. What's more, it boosts your confidence and self-esteem, leading to happier relationships and increased daily productivity. It's no wonder that WHO considers self-care as an effective aspect of national health systems. Here are some helpful ways you can prioritize self-care. 

1. Prioritize exercise 

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An inexpensive yet effective way to practice self-care is to exercise daily. Regular exercise comes with many perks that improve your life significantly. It triggers changes in the brain parts that regulate anxiety and stress, for starters. Besides, it boosts the production of endorphins that induces positive feelings while increasing your brain's sensitivity to norepinephrine and serotonin, which combats depression. Furthermore, it increases your energy levels, tones your muscles, and aids weight loss. That said, you'd want to include working out in your daily routine if you haven't already. 

Fortunately, several workouts are specifically designed to address certain areas, so keep this in mind. For instance, exercises like walking, gardening, dancing, pilates, and circuit training effectively reduce stress. Likewise, push-ups, lunges, sit-ups, arm raises, etc., are effective at toning your muscles. As a tip, choose the activities that you're comfortable with to prevent working out from becoming a chore. You can also get a workout partner to make the experience more enjoyable. 

2. Don’t skip sleep 

Sleep is a crucial aspect of daily life that helps your mind and body recharge. This leaves you feeling refreshed and mentally alert for the day. Besides, people who have enough sleep are less prone to illnesses and chronic diseases and can maintain a healthy weight. What's more, good sleep helps you make better decisions, as your mind is more active. Therefore, you might be doing yourself more harm if you haven't been sleeping well. The CDC recommends that adults sleep for at least seven hours nightly. 

Fortunately, you can take practical steps to ensure that you don't skip sleep. For instance, it's best to avoid consuming caffeine late in the day, as it can stimulate your nervous system, preventing your body from relaxing. You also want to avoid taking long daytime naps if it constantly messes with your night sleep. As a tip, prepare your room by decluttering and reducing noise. By all means, avoid using your smart devices before sleeping, as they emit blue light that prevents you from falling asleep. 

3. Go for regular check-ups

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Your health is paramount, and going for regular check-ups is a sure way of ensuring your wellbeing. Regular check-ups help you detect and treat potentially life-threatening diseases earlier. Moreover, it limits complication risks by constantly monitoring existing conditions, increasing your lifespan ultimately. Routine check-ups depend on your age; people aged 19-21 can go once every two to three years, while those aged 22-64 can go once every one to three years. Adults aged 65 and above can go once annually for the best results. Therefore, it's best to consult with your OBGYN and other health providers to create a suitable check-up routine for you. 

How to Make 2022 Your Best Year Yet

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There are many typical starts to a new year which can often end in disappointment. We set goals for ourselves which are often quite unrealistic. Usually, these new commitments and promises we make to ourselves are forgotten or abandoned by the time February rolls around. Setting new year aspirations also come with a lot of pressure, often taking away from our lives rather than adding them. This post will give you some food for thought on how to really make the most of the new year and the fresh energy it brings to make lasting changes that will continue for years to come. 

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1. Remove any Pressure. 

The first tip is to remove any pressure from yourself going into the new year. This means getting rid of any preconceived notions you may have of the year to come. Allow yourself to have some reasonable goals but get rid of any pressure you are putting on yourself to fulfil all of them in the first month of the year. So often, bringing in new goals and building the foundations for these to happen takes longer than a month. Putting pressure on ourselves to fulfil them within this limited timeframe can be more damaging as the disappointment leads you to abandon them.

2. Get Your Ducks in a Row. 

It will be impossible to start the new year off right without making sure you have everything you can have in place to start. This means properly thinking through your goals for the year. What do you need for these goals? What steps do you need to take? For example, if you want to start a successful blog, think through what tools you need to start. How many times a week will you need to post? What kind of audience do you want? It may be worth considering investing in SEO to get initial traffic. This is the kind of thought process you need to go through for your new goals to stick. Although it may appear daunting writing all the steps you need to go through, by splitting the larger goal into smaller steps, the plan will eventually seem easier to tackle. It can be worth trying to tackle some admin in the Twixmas period as it is often quieter, allowing you the time to finish things you have been putting off. 

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3. Avoid Choosing the Same Goals You Choose Every Year.

This is an essential step as it avoids feelings of failure already creeping into your goal-setting. A common goal individuals choose is to lose weight or get in shape. If this is something you have said to yourself before, try quantifying this goal. Do you want to lose ten pounds? Do you want to be able to run a marathon? This can give you an easier place to start as you come into the new year, narrowing the focus and making it easier to start. 

4. Be kind to yourself. 

Don't be too harsh on yourself if you go off track in the new year. If your goal was to make some home improvements, for example, and you have hit a couple of roadblocks, there is no reason to rush. Take a minute, and don't let the disappointment discourage you. Figure out what went wrong, and then attack again. But if you need to rest and recover, that's fine too. The most important thing is to keep trying and pushing yourself despite hitting roadblocks. 

5. Get Support

Another way to stay kind to yourself is to make sure you have got a great support system behind you. Cut ties with people that consistently make you feel bad about yourself. This can include feeling drained, jealous, or small. The people and environment you surround yourself with are paramount when feeling better. Don't be afraid to cut people off, even if you think they haven't done anything to upset you specifically. What you feel around them will tell you whether you need them. You should ensure that the people you are left with uplift you, and for anybody, you can't cut off, maybe because you live with them or work with them, try to distance yourself as much as possible. Above all, don't be afraid to put yourself first in the new year.

Try to follow these tips as much as possible. If you do, you should be well to feel your best in 2022, and making your goals actually happen.

Christmas On A Budget: Tips For A Fun And Affordable Holiday

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Giving gifts during the holidays can be stressful, both mentally and financially. I've compiled a list of ideas for spending less money on Christmas this year.

As you get older, your attitude toward the holiday’s shifts. Even though your feelings of happiness and friendliness should remain, your attitude toward gifts should shift.

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It goes from being something you are looking forward to being something you dread doing.

Maybe not, but when you're expected to give as much as you receive, gift-giving takes on a whole new meaning. When you're working with a limited budget, spending a large sum of money on a large number of people can feel like an imposition. It should come as no surprise that so many Americans end the year with credit card debt, unable to pay it off before the next holiday season rolls around.

Christmas shopping, on the other hand, does not have to be expensive. There are a number of strategies that can be used to reduce or eliminate holiday expenditures. All that is required is an openness to new ideas.

Make A Plan

When shoppers fail to plan ahead for Christmas, their spending often exceeds their budgets. Determine your Christmas spending budget, and then make a list of all of your responsibilities, including gifts, travel, and decorations, and stick to it. Add a monetary value to each item, erring on the side of overestimating.

Saving money this year may be difficult, but consider this: it will allow you to get a head start on your debts next year if you spend less this year.

One of the best ways you can create a plan is to read some budgeting tips on frugal living blogs. 

Look Out For Extra Savings 

A long list of gifts to buy? Here are a few favourite ways to look out for savings:

• Look for coupons.

• Join a store's mailing list

• New subscribers usually get an extra 10%-20% savings. Even creating a new email address to receive several discounts.

• Use a rewards card

• Credit card with a cashback offer

• Buy used gift cards

Talk To Your Loved Ones

If you are struggling to make ends meet, Christmas may seem like an imposition. Stress during the holidays may cause people to harbour ill will toward their more prosperous relatives and friends.

Discuss with your loved ones the possibility of skipping the gift exchange or spending less money. You don't have to tell them everything; just enough information to make sense to them is sufficient. Your brother-in-law who has recently become a parent might appreciate a year off from the madness of holiday gift-giving.

Summary

As an adult, purchasing gifts for friends and family members become a chore. Although it's not really enjoyable, coming up with non-traditional gift ideas is.

Remember that there are many different ways to be creative, so continue to think beyond the box.

Do you have any other ideas that could help? Please share some of them in the comments below. 

How to Improve Your Mental Health from Today Onward

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As the world becomes more connected, it's easier for people to feel like they're not enough. This can lead to low self-esteem and mental health issues that impact your relationships with others and yourself. However, there are many ways you can improve your mental health from today onwards - here are just a few of them!

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#1 Meditate

The first step to improving your mental health from today is learning how to meditate. Meditation can help reduce stress and anxiety, as well as improve memory and focus over time. In order to start a meditation practice, it's best for you to try out different types of yoga mats until you find one that works for you. For example, you could sit down with a paper or journal in silence, take a walk outside while breathing deeply, listen to calming music - there are endless ways to meditate! 

Just make sure not to do anything too strenuous before bedtime so that you get the most restful sleep possible. Be patient with yourself if, at first, this seems challenging-it takes effort, but it will be worth it once you notice changes in your moods and energy levels over time.

#2 Practice mindfulness

Number two on the list of how to improve your mental health from today is practising mindfulness. Mindfulness can help you become more aware and present in every moment, which then helps you be less reactive towards things that stress you out or make you feel insecure. Practising mindfulness doesn't need to take a lot of time either - it could mean taking notice of the colours around you as you walk down the street, noticing sounds like birds chirping or wind rushing past. It all counts!

#3 Exercise

Number three on the list of things you can do to improve your mental health from today is a simple one - exercise. Exercise helps release endorphins which in turn make you feel happier and less stressed. It also has even been shown in scientific studies that regular physical activity reduces anxiety, depression, insomnia and many other common mental health issues people experience every day. 

So it's safe to say when it comes to improving your mental health from today onwards, getting up off the couch will be beneficial for your mind as well as body! But, of course, even just going outside for a walk or taking an extra trip up and down the stairs at work counts, too, so don't put off being active any longer if this hasn't been off your daily routine until now.

And if you're not a fan of going to the gym, that's okay! There are plenty of other options for exercising at home or outside, and since we all know how busy life can get sometimes, then it makes sense that having an exercise routine that doesn't require much time is ideal.

#4 Cut any negativity from your life

The final step to improving your mental health from today is cutting any negativity from your life. Negative people who are critical of you or others can be draining on a physical and emotional level, even if they're family members, friends or co-workers. So why not start by saying something nice about yourself once a day? This helps counter the negative thoughts that might otherwise get stuck in our heads without us realising them.

Daily Routines of Successful People

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Daily Routines of Successful People

 

If you want to become more successful, daily routines can help. Just look at some of the most successful people in the world and you’ll see the one thing they have in common is they follow a strict routine.

The question is, what does a daily routine of a successful person look like? To give you inspiration, below you’ll discover some great examples of what successful people include in their routines.

Start With a Morning Routine

One of the main things that successful people have in common, is that they all have a morning routine, as well as afternoon routines, and evening routines. It might not be the exact same routine, but they do have one that they follow religiously.

Interestingly, you’ll also find that successful people tend to wake up earlier than most. It isn’t uncommon for them to start their day anywhere from 3.30am to 5am. This gives them time to carry out their routines and it is also the time they feel most productive.

Limit Social Media

 Another habit successful people have in common is that they take regular breaks from social media. In the mornings, they may avoid checking social media, watching television, and checking their emails for at least an hour. they may take time away from it in the evenings instead. Taking breaks from social media does wonders for our mental health. It can also help you to feel calmer and more relaxed.

Prioritize Important Tasks First

Successful people know how to work smarter. They take care of the important tasks first, ensuring they aren’t as stressed out throughout the day. When you get the important tasks done first, you will feel much more relaxed and more proud of your accomplishments.

Practice Gratitude

A lot of successful people regularly practice gratitude. I know what you’re thinking “it’s easy to practice gratitude when you are already successful.” However, these people were also practicing gratitude before they made it big. By focusing on the things that you are grateful for, it creates positivity. This in turn helps to boost productivity, helping you to achieve much more in your day.

Exercise Daily

Exercise is another key factor to success. When you exercise regularly, it keeps your brain more focused and alert. You’ll have much more energy helping you to deal with whatever your day throws at you. Many people choose to exercise early in the morning to get it out of the way, and to get a great energy boost.

These are just a few of the things you’ll find included in the daily routines of successful people. By looking at how you spend your time, you can figure out what your daily routine should include and you will begin the journey to success, just as the most successful people did.

Supporting Your Child Through Life Changing Events

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When it comes to childhood, we like to think of it being a time of fun and carefree days and nothing untoward that will ruin that. As magical as we want childhood to be for our children, things don't always pan out the way we want them to. It is a sad reality that at some point children may experience the kind of issues that even adults struggle to process and deal with effectively.

Fun Ways to Strengthen Family Bonds

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When you’re a parent, one of the most important things you can do is build a strong bond with your children and ensure that they have strong bonds with all of their family - the more loving people a child has around them the better! 

For most people, bonding comes pretty naturally, but it is still a good idea to take the time to strengthen and solidify those bonds on a regular basis. Here are a few ways you can do that:

Tell personal stories

Kids love hearing personal stories about their parents, grandparents and aunts and uncles from the past. They enjoy hearing what their adult family members did when they too were young and care-free, and it’s a great way to show them that as well as being mom or dad you are a person in your own right. Sharing your past ‘secrets’ with them can also make them feel special and help to build a stronger connection between you. Just make sure your stories are appropriate!

Book a family photo session

What could be more fun than gathering everyone together for a family photo session? A good family photographer will know how to make the process lots of fun with jokes and a few well-placed props and you’ll get to show just how much you love each other not only in the moment but captured forever in the images your photographer snaps.

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Have a movie night

Something as simple as snuggling up together on the couch watching a favorite movie can be so special to a child. They’ll feel safe, secure, and loved and you won’t even have to leave the house or go to any special effort other than perhaps buying some of their favorite candy to chew on while the movie’s in progress so it’s perfect for those busy weeks when you just want to relax in your downtime.

Ask them about their life

One of the best ways to build a strong bond with children is by taking them more seriously and listening to them when they speak. Every day, you should make a point of asking your children not only about their day but at least one question about their personality such as their favorite book or what they love most about nature. They’ll feel more appreciated as a person and they’ll be more likely to open up to you in future if they know that you will listen, and more importantly, that you really care about what they think and feel.

Cook together

Cooking with children is a great way to get them interested in food and healthy eating, It’s also a great way to spend some quality time with them, especially if you sit down to eat whatever you’ve created together afterward. 

Go on vacation

Taking a family vacation where you can dedicate all of your time to each other is ideal for family bonding. You’ll build up more shared experiences and have unique adventures that you’ll all remember forever.

How do you strengthen the bonds with your children?